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Signs: - stares with smiles, intimidated kind of stares, this one girl covered her face with her hair and was like looking at me, this other girl stared at me for like 20 SECONDS when she was supposed to be presenting to the class and her partner was just talking the whole time, this other girl that sits in front of me at an angle turned her torso towards me and was talking all softly, they stare at me through the door, giggle at like almost everything i say even if it's not funny, they say stuff out loud that only i would know about, i was laughing at a video with these girls and the girl i thought liked me looked like she was going to cry, another girl bumped into me in the hallway and when i was like "oh my bad" she went off giggling it looked like, i say thank you a lot, so when this girl came back from the bathroom she says "thank you" softly looks directly at me and then giggles.

All of these stuff happen, so they just make me feel like i am seeing things or there is something wrong with me. Mind you, I've never experience anything like this, so I am just very awkward and stuff. Idk if my friends are just cockblocking me heavy or I am delusional. This one girl I liked since freshman year is the president of this one club. She posted this flirty tik tok which literally described me, and when I told someone about it they said "she doesn't know who you are and she thinks you're weird". That is the guidance counselors niece btw. When I snapped her a question about the club, she told me "anyone can come" and I said "oh okay cool" and she says "yea bring your friends" and I said "sounds good". She replied EXTREMELY fast too when I texted her. For someone who apparently thinks I am "weird" I thought that was strange. This other girl I liked moved on to this other dude bc i didn't know if she really liked me or not. When i gave her eye contact in the hallway she looked almost embarrassed to be with the dude in front of me.

We met the night before in an office team dinner. As I was helping organise the dinner event, I was tasked to come up with a game that we can all play as a team (we had around 100 people consisting of smaller teams). As I went around asking ideas from the sub-teams, I met him when I approached his team's table. I introduced myself and eventually with the help of his team members we started playing a game. It was fun until the dinner began. I was sitting alone in the front as my friends were either busy or already out to get the food from the buffet placed in the hallway. His and my eyes met and he asked me if I wanted to join him to get the food. His team and I went to get food but later I came back to join my team to eat the food. We did bump into each other a few times, when we smiled and even had a few interactions. I became friends with one of his team members and later when I was leaving, I requested them to wave at me first as I was bad at remembering people who I have met only once for a brief time. The next day in office, again twice or thrice when he went past my cubicle, we smiled at each other and waved. Later that evening, when I was having coffee with my friends in the pantry, he had also come with his team for a break. As he was coming into the pantry, our eyes met, he called out name smiling and he walked over to my table with his box of fruits (which he was going to eat to break his fast for the day) and insisted my friends and I take a fruit piece (first me and then my friends and then eventually again me... so I took two pieces). He didn't have to come over and share his fruits, but he did. Is he just a sweet guy or is he maybe interested in me?

i have been talking to a girl that goes to my school on snapchat and we have texted a lot, we also have been facetiming until pretty late(1-3 am). i like her, i think she likes me but although we usually talk 1-2 hrs a day at least she ignores me in school. on a call with her, i asked her about it and she brushed it off. she was asking some of my friends if i liked her and they (ofc) gave neutral answers. idk if she likes me or not.

if not, i am a dumbass.

if so, i still am a dumbass.

Ever since I met him....he was such a cool guy.. does he like me?..

Okay so I (18f) met this guy (19m) at a party. He asked me for my number and then we matched on tinder. He started texting me a fair amount and we smoked together once with nothing happening. He continued to text me (but he’s bad at replying so even though he’d instigate convo he’d take at least 2-4 hours to respond) and eventually asked me to smoke again. We watched a movie and it took him like 30 minutes to even grab my hand to hold it. I ended up leaving after the movie because he never made a move even though I feel like I was fairly obvious (ie, leaning close to him, eye contact, laying my legs on top of his). I thought we were not gonna happen after this so I was like whatever but now he’s added me on Snapchat. I just have no clue whether or not this guy is into me and just shy or if he does not like me at all

As the title says... I became too obsessed. I stalk her everyday. I try so hard to hide my feelings when i'm with her. I cry myself to sleep every night. Today i liked one of her posts by mistake and i feel so bad.

I know she likes me, even the slightest. But the talking stage or whatever the f... is that scares me the most... I am extremelly boring for today's standards. I listen to weird music, I have odd hobbies, no friends, no brothers. I come from a boring family that knows only work and sleep...... no many life experiences. i sit in my room alone everyday..... Many say i'm an amazing person... but that alone, won't keep her by my side. I am tired of this loneliness.... it kills me. When im with her i just behave like a normal person..... and when im alone i feel physically ill

Well. There is a boy I really like. and I met him in my freshman year and he liked me. but because of covid we stopped talking. Now in my junior year I don't have any classes with him but my friend does. So I spent my entire junior year having a crush on him but never talking to him. Until a month ago he invited my friend and me to see a movie. but at that time it didn't seem like a good idea to me because maybe he did it so that my friend wouldn't feel uncomfortable. I think he likes her. but in the end I went because no one forced him to invite me and if he had wanted to be a date with my friend he would have invited only her. The point is that three days ago I told him about two in the morning that I liked him. "Anthony I like you" . The next day he doesn't say anything and he just asks me. "what time did you sleep yesterday?"We have talked a bit through messages but he never touched on the fact that I told him I liked him. Yesterday I saw him after school and I tell him. "Are you mad at me?" He says no that if he had said something. I said no. he asked me if I had said something and I told him no. Then he said goodbye and that's it. I told my friend and she just laughed at me and told me. "There, he sent you to the friend zone".

She talks a lot with him and today and she told me that he's gonna travel to math next week for advisory. She said that she wanna go too. And told me to go with her. But I don't know if I should go. Would it look bad?

Sounds dumb, I know.. but there’s this guy and he’s pretty cool. Always saw him around campus, and my friends know him. We’re not like close personally. Well, recently he has followed me on social media and on strava (we’re both runners and bikers) and he always likes my Instagram stories and what not. Well last week I spoke up in front of my school at our community meeting and after that he came to me in the parking lot at school and mentioned how I made a great point and what not which made me feel really good. But after he was like “well, have a nice day dude.” And walked off. Maybe he friend zoned me? I wanna start talking with him more or maybe invite him to go on a strava walk. Idk.. we’ve just never talked before other than occasional eye contact in the halls. What do I do? How do I start talking to someone I have just met kind of without it being weird or awkward?

So a week ago me and this guy fucked. It was basically the first time I met him at a HP. We have been texting ever since but a lot of ppl have warned me abt him he has a lot of red flags. i can even notice it while texting him just these past couple of days. But he’s in my head. Idk what to do. i tried stopping talking w him but every time I act dry it’s like he knows what I’m doing and starts putting so much effort in the conversation yet when I act interested he barely does.

basically i (nb they/she 20) always felt excluded growing up because i would basically pretend to have crushes on guys bc i felt like i didnt fit in, i realized that i was pan, but then as i grew older i know i dont like guys and im only attracted to non-men so i label myself as lesbian. i lost a lot of friends because i came out to them. but whenever i get a crush its ALWAYS on straight girls. ive only had one situationship and that did not last long. i had a crush on someone that ive known for a long time, but then i realized that its never going to happen so i stopped liking them. i recently met someone new and we have a friendship and have gotten really close really fast, but i do not want to fall for another straight girl. the thing is i dont even know if i even like this girl what should i do?

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This cute chick recently gives me the look now and then, even tho I haven't talked to her yet.. Be anywhere I see her giving me multiple glances and heck sometimes just staring at me .. I don't see any expressions tho and once it happened that we locked eyes for 2-3 seconds straight until she looked down. Her friends definitely know cause I've seen them looking my way as well prolly to report to her how I was looking and all...i was confident that she might be interested but it all broke down when I saw her id on Instagram and sent out a request to her to confirm my assumptions unfortunately she didn't respond to it and I retracted my request as well.. So now I'm at a place where I'm thinking if I'm over analysing this whole situation or maybe there is something really brewing...side note - I'm 5'10" , pretty fit and prolly it's the gym where she started giving me indirect signs by walking past me and being around my vicinity.. The usual

***update***

i finally broke the ice, but holy shit it was insane... I was returning from the gym and sat with my friends at the canteen until one of mates sported her just next to us .. Away 2 , 3 tables... And again staring and glancing at me... I didn't bother as it was not the ideal way to go talk as I had already been seated and would look creepy..i went off to bring my sandwich to my table and spotted her friend looking at me and her glacing over and over again obviously but i ignored it and acted as if I didn't spot them... They get done and leave while we're still eating but after a while she and her friend returned and stood literally *beside me* like no cap... To this I thought well ig I gotta talk now and as she was moving behind me(idk why tho) I just threw a casual thing like "I don't see U in the gym anymore" And she was smiling like anything and it was beautiful...anyways to which she responded that she is there "everyday except Tuesday" Before I could say anything else I could see her and her friend giggling and they ran away.. Now I was pretty confident that she's into me.. But today things became I must say wierd . .. I saw her at the gym.. She made it absolutely clear that she was around me by walking past me and all.. Glancing over and over again obviously... But when I went to talk to her.. She seemed "reserved" And "busy" Idk maybe she didn't want to be distracted from the workout.. Idk it just felt I wasn't welcome.. So I left without saying much and decided I won't react to her obvious stares (which she kept on giving after our interaction.. Ofc) and I kept my grind till the end of it she was joined by another of her friend and they moved into the washroom.. (Me and my buddy were working out near it) so we thought that's the end of it... But she left and came back to the gym fucking "thrice" And again her friend checking me out and all...the usual And hung out around me.... Idk wtf am I supposed to do now... Like wt????

*Update 2*

This was just bizarre and disrespectful honestly.. Or maybe I'm seeing into it too much..... Literally went upto her ... She was walking with her friend..... Who she seemed to hang around alot... I guessed her being with her friend mkes her comfortable cause usually she's nervous... But I struck up a convo and she again smiled and all was laughing and giggling.. Initially I thought it was working out well until her friend gave her a stare and she literally *RAN AWAY WITH HER* without saying bye Or anything and I really wanted to talk more.... This really pissed me off and now I'm so done I've done 2 approaches with limited reaction yet she still gives me the stares and all.... It's breaking my back now... Idk wt to do.. I feel embarrassment and regret

STOP FREAKING FALLING FOR EVERY GUY YOU SEE 😫

Okay, there's this woman, who is literally strong, captivatingly beautiful, bad-ass as well I might add, and many other things. It is just, I think I am too out of her league, you know? I mean, she is beautiful, and am not handsome enough. But here is what I wanted to do, I told myself that if I want her into my life, I should have something to prove first. Like go work, earn enough money, creating fortune too. Because really at this point, I am just barely a nobody. I mean yeah, I have work but not good enough. I really like her. I am also thinking, I wanted to confess my feelings through music. Writing a song for her. Come what may, whatever happens, that is it. She will have a job soon too. So I figured, if we ever got the chance to see again after the first meet up, it will not happen most likely. What should I do on the first meeting? I am nervous. And I really think I do not have the chance to be with her too. What do you guys think?

she and her bandmate ask me to make a video of there performance.

And yah i accepted it.

So i was infront of them standing and recording them. She even look at the camera. I saw that cuz im staring at her using the camera.

And when they finshed she ask me if i recorded it.

Any thoughts? Should i take it as a sign. Cuz i was really looking for signs.

He is really shy and I know he hates school but today I had a volunteer activity after school and he stayed. He also made eye contact with me 😁😁😁

For some context, we're extremely close, but not in a romantic way. We tell each other everything, see us almost everyday, often call or hang out, and are in the same friend group, so whenever there's a party, we both are there.

She first had initiated it on a party when we were both sitting on a couch, she put her head on my shoulder and I reciprocated. After that she wanted to sleep for a bit and we both laid down on the couch holding each other. I eventually got up later to grab some water, and sat on a chair on the other side of the room not wanting to wake her up. She was not sleeping and opened her eyes, and invited me to go back with her on a couch (being a dumbass, I refused because I thought she would sleep better without me)

The same thing happened at one or two other parties, and we both fell asleep holding each other during new year's eve.

I precise that she does not drink alcohol, and had never cuddled with other people than her formers boyfriends, her female best-friend, and her family

So how do you guys see cuddling ? Is it something you can do with anyone you're close with or just with people you like romantically ?

M15

Hello this is my first time posting on reddit

So i have a friend that doesnt go to my school anymore, and this friend that i still talk to has a female friend in school...well i like this girl, i find her attractive.

And i dont know what to do here, i have never talked to her ever in my life and shes a grade below me in school so the chances of contact are low but i really want to talk to her and scale things up. Should i tell my friend? Should i attempt to talk to her? what should i do, any suggestions would help

So it’s the end of the semester and I was thinking about messaging him, letting him know I that I am happy we met this semester and that I appreciate our little conversations, and how they brighten my day and in the end wishing him well for the summer. Should I do it?

Side note: I would tell him in person given the chance, but I don’t see him often enough and we don’t share any classes.

So its been a week since we are practicing for songs that we will perform. Im a drummer and shes a singer.

I like her. I always trying to be nice with her without showing signs. Im trying to limit my self cuz shes currently dating someone or i think she likes him. But they are not in a relationship yet. So im just trying my best with limits for now. I will do what i can do. Mehh.

Im the one who volunteer. To bring her home.

I have a bike so. Yah. I,ve added her on social media . But i dont want to talk to her. Cuz i know shes busy. She got alot of scheduled performance so i think its not the right time.

Ive been practicing alot btw just to impress her.

I just intended to be friend with her as of now. I need to respect the other guy aswell.

Reposting here because my last post got no responses in another community.

I (28F) have a newly developed crush on a coworker (M27). With this development, I've had to re-evaluate my sexuality because I adopted a lesbian identity during the duration of my last relationship with a woman. This isn't necessarily relevant, but I guess is good background info to set the stage. I have been single since February 2021 after a six year on/off relationship and I figured I'd take years to move on, but I actually feel in a space where I feel good about the relationship ending and I am open to see who is out there.

He is new to the office, maybe like two or three weeks. But I actually went to high school with him and he was two grades below me in my younger brothers class. I realized I knew him and we chatted a little bit about it. At that point, I thought he was cute, but that was it.