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so, i have a crush on this boy that i go to school with, i know him through some other friends and have out with him outside of school. unfortunately, we don’t have any classes or lunch together. when i do talk to him it’s only texting. when i text home he sometimes doesn’t respond which is completely okay, he’s a busy person. but is there anyway i can talk to him more? |
So there's this guy I have had a crush on for like 4 years now. We live in different cities yet we meet once a year in a reunion with everyone for just 4 days. After that, we never see each other. |
I am usually a shy person so talking to a crush was never an option for me. But I tried my best and tried to seize a lot of opportunities but the talking doesn't work out. I couldn't even gather the courage to ask him for a picture with me. Anyways, but apart from that, I can feel it when he casually drops hints that he might like me too. My friends agreed to this theory a few days earlier when I told them a few of our memories together. So, I've decided to finally gather up all my courage and actually talk to him. The reunion's next month, 29 days to be exact. It's 4 am as I'm writing this and I'm freaking out. |
Can someone help me out with the basics so that I don't make a fool out of myself in front of him? :'D |
Seriously, it's this year or never. (Or better luck next year ig?) Thanks for hearing me out ❤️ |
I have a crush on a guy. it has been for 2 years since I liked him and every time I talk to him I always do something stupid like shipping him with my best friend. obviously, they get together and I always get hurt, but during lockdown, I did the most stupidest thing I've ever done in my life by getting him away from my life because I can't bear myself getting hurt and jealousy but the more I said bad things to him the more I get hurt. But then during summer, I heard that he and my best friend broke up it kinda made me happy but at the same time hurt because when I heard them they broke up he stop messaging me and now I recently heard that he found someone and I just want to move to another school just to forget him. |
So, I'm in my first year of community college, and, well, I have no friends. Everybody is really silent and I'm already already a pretty shy guy, and sometimes I just wish someone would walk up to me and start a conversation. Well, one person did. This girl, and through the really, really, really, really, really, unlikely chance she somehow sees this post, I'm going to call her... Jane. |
Anyways "Jane" randomly one day started a conversation with me about, I don't know, maybe four weeks ago at this point (we only have 1 class together mind you) she was talking to me about basically myself and whatnot but I was super awkward about it. I was uh, waiting in line to speak with my teacher after class so I didn't really say much other than "thanks" and "nice to meet you." Anyways, I left class and from there I never really talked to Jane much, well, nothing more than saying hi to her and what not every now and then. But, one day she tried another conversation with me while I was waiting to speak with my professor, and I was still super awkward. But this time at the very least I actually acknowledged her a bit more, and after that I noticed her more in class. She's kind of like me, I may not be the smartest, but to make up for it I always speak the most in class, you know, not to others but when it comes to answering questions and stuff, I'm basically the teacher's pet. Well, out of all the girls in class she's the most talkative in that way as well, and she's really smart. And, I think with her being super smart as well as kind of cute I have a crush on Jane now. |
I talked to her last time I was at school which was last Wednesday, but this time I wasn't nearly as shy or meek. I ran into her while she was going for extra credit tutoring. And then I told her my name because apparently she didn't know my name, which is fine. I should also make it clear she went out of her way to speak to me here as well... I mean, I'm not saying she likes me back, but out of all the guys in class I'm certain I'm the only one she makes an effort to speak to, and she keeps speaking to me even though I'm a dork, so uh, you tell me what you think that means. |
Anyways, I want to talk to this girl more. I mean, all we've talked about so far if I remember correctly is school. We don't even sit in the same place in class, I sit, like, usually three rows behind her. And yeah it's college so we don't have assigned seats, but at the same time I feel it'd be awkward if I just randomly sat next to her. But that's basically all I have to say, any advice for what to do to get to know her better? I don't think I ever liked a girl this much to be honest, well, bar any of my exes. So please, advice? |
Ok at first i learned that my crush has a girlfriend.It made me sad but i decided to be friends with him because he seemed a very nice guy, funny,caring ect.But later i foud out he flirts with other girls and is cheating on his gf.He used to flirt a lot with me too, but he ended up saying that i am a very good girl and i don't deserve to be hurt! Now we still talk...He stopped the flirting part and he is caring towards me...However our friendship is getting cold, there are times he ignores me completely, other times he is being passive-aggressive or does things to hurt me in purpose...I care about him alot and i care about our friendship too. |
So, for context, on my last post, i told u guys how i confessed to her, she said that she appreciated my honesty and wanted to continue being friends (response that i felt satisfied with), but after a few convos, i noticed how she started to talk to me coldly, and right now i dont even talk to her, i only send her like a message every 2 days (obviously i want to send her many more messages, but i dont wanna annoy her), so, i just wanna ask, how do i forget about her? or is there another thing that i can do so that i recover my relationship with her? |
My crush doesn’t like me back. She can’t stand me because of how obsessed and crazy I am over her. Last night I had a dream that I tied her up to a chair and sexually assaulted her and that I had no problem doing it and that I enjoyed it. I even woke up from it being horny. I know it’s messed up but what does this mean? |
Hey, so I like this girl I mean I really really like her. I have known her for 2 years and feeling this for almost 2 years. She a friend of my family. We see each other frequently at family get together but we r so awkwardly silent now. We had an unofficial date, we hung out at the library just the two of us. Had coffee chatted it was so good. Then there was this one time where I was Sitting alone and she came and sat with me talked and the others thought there was something going on between us lol. AMD one time I was sitting alone at the front room and she came there and we talked and when families started to come there she went I think she didn’t want them to think there was something going on between us. Presently I text her in instagram but it’s more like she’s replying and am asking question. I actually love her. And I don’t know if she’s into me.., got any advice?. Thanks. And am 21 and she’s 18 btw |
And sorry forgot to add this…. I wished on her b day exactly at 12 texted a lot for like 2 hours straight. So I was kinda hoping that she likes me so I thought she was gonna wish me on my b day but she didn’t so I felt so down so as a result I was angry I unfriended her deleted all her texts and contacts didn’t talk to her since July and after that am talking to her now. I thought I was over her but clearly not. I love her a lot. |
Past (June-September 2020): |
I used to like this girl a lot and we talked so much and she definitely had a crush on me. She knew I liked her and I knew she liked me. It was my first ever serious crush and I was going to officially confess my feelings for her soon. All of a sudden she started getting really distant and didn't talk unless I messaged her. (Yes, we were talking mostly on messages as in person at school was awkward and I felt like my friends would judge me and ruin it). Well one morning she said she wasn't ready to get into a relationship yet and that we could still be friends. I thought: "ok, that is fine, it is only high school anyway." She got into a relationship with another guy a week later. I didn't get that mad since it was only a high school crush. This is just the backstory so you could get to know what it was like. |
Present: |
I got over her in like 2 months and haven't had a crush on her at all since, but last night (I don't know why), I had a dream with her in it (nothing NSFW) and it ended with me hugging her (which never happened in real life - I have never hugged a girl outside of my family lol). I think that dream has brought back a bit of feelings for her. Maybe she was always at the back of my mind but I never paid attention to it. I just have no idea why I had a dream about someone that I thought I got over. |
TL;DR: I had a dream about my ex-crush last night and I don't know why and I think it brought back feelings. |
It’s been a year since we first started to get in touch. Man she’s so fine! |
5-6 months later I stopped message her back… I made our conversations dry on purpose? I think I was just tooo afraid that she didn’t like me back the way I liked her. |
Imma be real I was soft, I was blind cus the way I acted… that wasn’t really me. |
Looking back at what I wrote is… I was that pick me guy, shits hard to say but that’s the way I was then. |
She’s the first one that I think I’ve actually really felt in love with (FYI I’m 18😶🌫️). |
I’m still imagining scenarios of us together doin sum chill, just hanging around you know… I really think she’s the one. |
Y’all don’t understand how bad I want to write to her or just say sum! She’s shy too so this ain’t easy, this ain’t even my thing writing my feelings like this on Reddit but, I can’t write to her so I might just write it to y’all. I just wanna @ her IG and show y’all how gorgeous she is! Anyways have a blessed day y’all |
Hello, 27F. |
Crushing on 28M. |
Met him on a trip with friends and have only known him 3 days. But we kinda clicked in terms of sense of humor and conversations. |
I have a massive crush on him to the point that he’s all I think about. But we aren’t really friends. He lives in a different state. |
Should I tell him I like him? |
We’ve spoken a bit since the trip and while my friends think there is a spark, I can’t tell at all. He’s not a good texter in general so I don’t know? |
Also, I’m not attractive, (not being modest, it’s the truth), so I’m sure that counts against me. I’m overweight and he’s skinny AF. |
I don’t know what to do because I’ve barely even had any crushes before and I keep thinking about him obsessively. |
Okay so I first met my crush through a twitch stream. I like watching streamers play Apex and he just so happened to play and I really enjoyed the way he was playing. I would comment on his stream and it eventually led to me finding him on Twitter and realizing we went to high school together! So boom I follow him and we just mutually share an interest of playing Apex when we’re able to and me watching his stream. I love the way that he thinks and the way that he talks (I hope that doesn’t sound overboard weird) but it’s a way that a person carries themselves that honestly makes them so attractive. I don’t want to tell him that I’m crushing and that I find him attractive because I’m not sure how he’ll take it. So I just keep my feelings to myself and continue supporting his stream and interacting with him SOMETIMES on Twitter to let him know that I’m pretty nice and friendly :) |
I've been talking to her for a while. I asked her out. She said "as friends". Not perfect but still good. Though it's becoming more and. Ore obvious that she doesn't even want to do lunch as friends with me. Her friends are telling me to move on, and I had an epiphany that she'll never see me as more than a classmate, and once the class ends, more than nothing. I'm canceling lunch but don't how to phrase it that doesn't sound like im blaming her. |
CRUSH-GUYS HELPPP! So ive liked this guy for like a year two years ago and he found out i liked him and i think he did too but like 4 months later my "friends" told him stuff about me and were saying rumors about me to him so he started to hate me. He hated me all of last year and literally told me he didnt like me very much in front of m face???! So fast forward to this year and HES IN MY CLASS I KID U NOT, he sits next to me the firt day back he kept putting his head down at me, didnt clap for any of my presentations we did on American history purposly but he clapped for everyone else. Two weeks later and all of a sudden we started snapping again and he keeps looking at me in class ans trying to start conversations with me or like talk when me and my friends are having a conversation. Its really toxic but i feel like he likes me but he is talking to another girl and thats a whole other story like they are full on half dating. Im trying to focous on school more so i can get amazing marks and while i was studying in class hes talking rlly quietly kinda directed to me AND U WONT BELIEVE THIS he says somethinb random i turn my head to him and laugh and when i looked up we made eye contact for like 2 seconds. AWKWARD BUT THEN HE KEPT LOOKING AT ME. idk if the other girl even likes him the whole relationship stated toxic and will end so bad but idk i feel that he likes me. Do you think hes gonna ask me to homecoming? |
I had a dream that I kidnapped my crush. She’s much bigger than me and I can’t lift her but in my dream I was able to carry her when I knocked her out |
So like some backstory: |
I have had a crush on a girl for like 5 years now, and like i never really talked to hee for 2 years cus we were in different classes, then i switched schools and she also went to my wchool, first year almost no contact cus different classes and in the 2nd year we were in the same class but i was closer with her best friend we rarely talked cus i kinda avoided her, my crush on her kinda disappeared that year but it came back when i saw her walking with a guy its weird cus theyre just friends and i dont even know if i like her |
Well, basicly the thing is that my crush and I are both in a whasap group (with some friends) in which we meet from time to time to go to the movies or whatever, and the other day my crush and I didnt stop answering each other with stickers and stuff. But what makes me nervous is that the other day that we spoke privately, I sent him a meme and from there he sends it every time we are in the group, it has become like a joke between the two of us, and I don't know if he using it that way is considered flirty, like he is teasing me. The funny thing is that only the two of us understand each other when he sends it and the rest just don't know what's going on lmao , also the group chat basicly looks like a conversation between him and I 💀💀 |
:) If i reach 125 upvotes a follow up post will come |
Hi, I’m 23 (M) and need perspective, single for a few years, since late 2020 while on Instagrams mutual and recommended follows looking for particular friends, I stumbled on a profile of 20 (F) girl we’ll call K who lives ~5 hrs away and shares my faith and mutual ig friends, at the time left it alone, when asked a few months back by cousins about her I found her page was private so I followed, accepted but not followed back and I couldn’t help but wanting to reach out. There’s a convention in fall and she MAY go (church related) and if she does i wouldn’t want to embarrass myself if she’s not interested, i feel it’d be odd to just DM as we haven’t met irl, if we were actually in person I it’d be different. As an Internet stranger i can’t think of a valid reason to introduce myself cause if it was me I’d reject it but idk cause i haven’t said anything….. help? Also if you have questions ask away |
I feel so ashamed of myself and embarrassed and incredibly guilty for stalking my crush. I don’t know what got ahold of me. I don’t know what led to me being so obsessed with her😫 i took it way too far. I realized it a little but I ignored and disregarded the fact that I was hurting her and making her feel so harassed to the point where she felt she needed to file a restraining order against me😩 I am so sorry 😣 it’s so unlike me to do this to someone. My friends and I would’ve never thought I’d be a stalker |
for a little back story I know this guy and we go to the same school, i met him at the target near my school but he with his friend and we’ve been friends ever since. He’s two years older then me but i’m not sure if he likes me, we don’t talk out of school but he always says that i’m short and we’ve talked only two time out of school and one time i hung out with him and his friend group before school started. i’m basically having him say this to me everyday but i’ve liked him since the moment i met him. |
My friend said to my crush that I was tryna get at her and she just laughed. He also asked about another guy and she said no, I just acted like I didn’t hear anything. And when I was about to leave I shook everybody’s hands except for hers. But then my friends said aren’t you gonna shake your crushes hand, she definirle heard it and then I shook it and she giggled and said bye. |
I guess I'm just looking to actually voice this and not necessarily looking for advice. Any support or tips appreciated too! |
I (28F) have a crush on a coworker (27M) that's about a week and a half in the making. Initially I was on the fence about what to do because our office is pretty close knit, BUT I have decided for numerous reasons that I will tell him. |
1. Worst case scenario is it might be a little awkward for a bit if he is not receptive, but he seems like a genuinely good guy so I don't expect it to be incredibly awkward at all. And I won't be hurt by the rejection if that's what does happen. |
2. Best case scenario is we get to know each other more and maybe it develops into something more meaningful. |
3. If somebody had a crush on me, I would want to know. |