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i previously had a long term crush on one of my close friends a year ago. i eventually got distracted with another person, and told myself that i lost feelings. now that i’m starting to talk to them more, i feel like i’m regaining these feelings for him. i wouldn’t mind liking him, but he had a past of liking my best friend. i feel like whenever i look at him or talk to him, all i can think about is when he broke my heart by asking her out in front of me. he hasn’t explicitly said it, but i think he still likes her to this day. i just want to let go of this pain. i have so much experience of being rejected because the guy likes my best friend, but this has been the most painful crush by far. i don’t want to ghost him either, because we’re still really close. how do i let go of my feelings without hurting our friendship? |
I’ve never been able to make it past the talking stage. But, there is a guy that i like and we have texted a few times but the convo died out. He always responds but never starts the conversation so I stopped talking to him. I genuinely want to know him but I don’t think he’s interested ☹️☹️I don’t know how to get over it. Any advice? |
In my math there's a girl I really have feelings for. Problem is we barely ever see each other in the hallways, library, lunchroom, etc. I only have one period with her and I can almost never talk to her during math, she does know I exist and sometimes talks to me. |
I was wondering if someone here can give me some helpful advice or suggestions on how I could somehow find a way to talk to her? |
He also likes to tease me, and he lets me play with his hair but not his own girlfriend??? Also when all 3 of us where in my room, he was laying on me on the bed lol… he even faked to sleep little rat, but the other day at school when it was lunch, we made eye contact for like 2 mins and I almost had a heart attack…. His eyes are like emeralds!! I’ll probably find some pics later of him but idk… when madi and him hug he barely hugs her but with me he wraps his arms around me and it’s so cute lol… when ever he walks home I call him to make sure he gets home safe… |
Okay so, d has a girlfriend now (aka my best friend) and it’s going… idk anymore. My friends and family think he likes me tho, madi said to me “yeah me and d are dating but he doesn’t act like we are” i agree… let’s say he gives me special treatment? Like he likes to play fight with me and tickle me idfk why… but he likes to pull my hair when he wants attention and slap my thigh?? It’s weird but yeah… he always stares at me… he never hits (playfully) madi but does with me??? When ever we talk, he makes full of eye contact aaaaaa…. He’s been to my house a lot of times now. Ima do an update part 2 it’s laggy lol |
I had crush on a girl who used to be in my school. I rarely talked to her but i liked her a lot. It's been 2 years since I completed my school and right now i am in college. Yesterday out of nowhere she asked me out! It turns out she had a crush on me too! I know it sounds too good to be true. Even i cant believe it. I just thought that i could share my experience with you guys. |
Title pretty much explains it, this girl started like a week ago and we've talked a little bit. |
She is super nice and I really want to get to know her but there's only so much to talk about and I don't want to annoy her, especially with the other guys talking to her. |
I'm going to a concert next month and I was thinking after a few weeks of getting to know her I'd ask if she'd like to go with me. Would that be a good idea? |
She seems to like me in some way, she starts the conversations sometimes and I've seen her looking at me a few times but I'm not sure if that means she is into me or not. |
Advice would be appreciated. |
I’ve made myself approachable a few times, if this person didn’t like me at all.. I wouldn’t catch them staring every now and then, but now being that this person doesn’t really make an effort to talk to me. I’ve caught myself also ignoring them. It makes me feel some type of way because they seem really interesting and I would like to get to know them, but again they’re not trying so what’s the point. I feel like if I keep trying then I’ll just scare them off. I guess I’ll just wait for them to come up to me🤢 |
I was the guy that posted a month ago that a girl had asked me out. Turns out she only dated me to get closer to my friend. And said this to me yesterday “I think we should break up because I never loved you I just wanted to get closer to mike everything I said meant nothing I just wanted to get close to mike”. Yeah so good luck back to my depressed self again. |
I’ve been hurt in relationships before and now I’ve badly caught feels for someone on my uni course. I know that if I get to know them and they like me back too, I will end up pushing them away out of fear that this will go wrong again but I really would love to be in a good relationship again :/ I just don’t know how to navigate this shit. |
I had a crush on this girl for a couple of years. I’m beginning to think I’m in love with her. A few hours ago my friend sent me a text saying how he also had a crush on her. To make things worse I think she likes him or at the very least doesn’t like me back. I am very confused on what to do. I’ve never felt this way about someone before so the possibility of my friend dating her is quite upsetting. My hands are shaking and im at a complete loss for words. I feel like I should say something to him but I don’t know what to say. All I can hope for is that she doesn’t like him. |
So I have had a crush on someone for a year! & he is truly a fantastic friend! Probably one of my best friends! |
He knows things about me my best friend of 20 years doesn’t know. |
I know that he doesn’t feel the same way I do! But I need to tell him how I feel so I can move on! |
I just don’t want to ruin the friendship! I treasure him as a friend and if the only way to keep him in my life if by being his friend, then that’s what i will do! |
I just don’t know how to tell him without 1)sounding like a complete idiot 2)ruining a friendship or 3)ruining something that could be more. |
I am really stuck and I don’t know what to do! Any advice?! How should I tell him? How do I not sound like a complete idiot?! |
So there’s this girl in my college that I just started like 3 weeks ago and from like the first day she caught my eye and I asked for her snap ever since then we’ve been snapping everyday non stop and she is so nice and like earlier this week we talked irl for the first time and it was like we clicked and I could just talk to her without a conversation topic and we could talk for ages so yesterday I asked what her relationship status was and she said it was on and off with a guy for like 2 months and she didn’t like it and that hurt so bad becasue I wanted something so bad to develop and it just seems like this random guy will just be the barrier to my happiness. This like affected me so much last night I was so sad I couldn’t sleep and today I wasn’t able to see her knowing how much I like her. Ik we’ve only known each other for a short amount but she just seems perfect and idk what to do becasue I don’t wanna ruin our friendship and she already has someone ig I just don’t know what to say because it’s killing me deep down and I can’t see her everyday |
(TW: cutting, suicidal thoughts) |
hey! so, for context, i made a post like 1 month ago explaining how i had a crush on my school friend, then like two weeks later, i made another one about how i confessed to her, and she said she didn't feel the same way, but she wanted to remain friends (a response that I felt happy with) but then she just bailed and doesn't talk to me anymore, and i didn't talk to her cuz she's probably going through some stuff, I didnt want to talk to her about it, cuz it makes her uncomfortable when people she hasnt talked to just appear out of nowhere and talk about those problems, the last message i sent her, was from this Wednesday when she posted about how she cut herself, which holy shit, that single image made me cry, so i just msgd her trynna like verify that she was okay, and to reassure her she can call someone for help (i wouldve told her to call me, but that would be pretty weird to say), i just talked to her for a few minutes, trying to help as much as i could, and ig it worked? idrk |
but now, to what happened yesterday, our school started reopening this week, but each class is divided by two groups of 10 people, and 1 of those groups goes to irl school one day, and then the other group goes the next day and shit, well, i applied, i went, and then i just got sent back cuz there weren't any spaces left, so, i had to go to the 2nd group, the problem is, that i would be THE ONLY PERSON that goes to a 2nd group in the whole school, obviously, i didnt accept, and i continued with taking online classes, but now im feeling like jealous asf, or idk what it is, like, its probably related to my crush, that i thought i already moved on from, or idk, maybe its just related to not being able to see my friends, and that combined with some family problems, has made me kinda depressed, ik it sounds so exaggerated, cuz like, how could i develop depression in a day? but i mean ig that i was already kinda sad and that just broke the line? idk, but now im just having suicidal thoughts and shit, so, any suggestions? |
There’s this cute girl I sit next to in class, turns out she likes me and i acted like i didn’t know so I could just see what she’s like yk. Well turns out I’ve been completely crushing on her the past couple weeks and I don’t know what to do. Should I tell her that I know she likes me and I like her too, or should I wait until she makes the first move? Please help!! |
At this point in time I only want to see my crush fully undressed for a few hours. Yet he is getting married soon. Not sure how to approach this?? Right now we are good work friends and that is it. |
I don’t even know why I like my crush tbh, but I just do, that means something right |
So I love this boy for 5 years now. We started texting again this year and eventually I realized how strong my love for him is. Long story short, he lives in America and I live in Europe. |
Other then that, I know he lies about a lot of things, even unnecessary things and sometimes I even think he has NPD and all the tries to keep talking to me and „hold me warm“ are for him to get something sexual eventually. |
I know that‘s a lot and that is a reason to block him everywhere and just move on. I did that 3 times and I could not forget him. I deleted the number, all photos, stopped stalking him, never every talked about him and still I couldn’t forget him after months. |
Right now we are friends. |
I was thinking about maybe telling him about my feelings, being honest and look what he says? I never really told him anything btw. It would be better if he breaks my heart right away, so I wouldn’t have to always wait for his text’s, calls and everything also. |
So yeah, should I just tell him the whole truth, how I feel about everything? Because in the end, I can’t lose what I don’t have. |
I made a previous post about my crush, Andre. I think he’s interested in me, but I don’t know if he’d act on it, if I’d even be a priority, or if I’m even good enough for him. Some of the things that I admire about him is that he’s very hardworking, ambitious, and enterprising. However, he’s very busy and can get very tired. He works in cyber security and has some side hustles. I can understand and sympathize with that so I try to give him his space and not blow up his phone with text messages. He always seems to be happy to hear from me when I text him. So far, we seem to have similar interests and hobbies. The concerning thing is that I seem to be doing all the texting and waiting for him to respond. Is he playing games? We’re not a “thing”, I don’t want to waste my time, and I hate being toyed with. Am I being paranoid and needy? Should I confront him and tell him my feelings? Or be a lady and wait for him to approach me? |
I wanna fricking keyboard slam or something because I still have no clue how else to convey my emotions. For context there’s this really pretty non-binary person at my school who makes a lot of their own clothes and their outfits are always really unique and beautiful and I could immediately tell just by looking at them that I had a lot in common with them and they reminded me of a lot of my best friend so I was really happy to find out I had my last period class with them, fast forward like 9 fucking weeks because my lexipro only helps with my socially anxiety and not the fact that I’m a pussy and the idea of asking someone out makes me absolutely terrified. I still hadn’t become more than slight acquaintances with them and felt like an idiot for it because I sit like three seats away from them and they’ve somehow already managed to become friends with every other person who sits near them and I could have also been friends with them if I had actually made an attempt to join a conversation at literally any point in time, but anyway since it was nearing the end of the semester I was worried I had missed my opportunity to at least be friends with them and I was kicking myself for it until today when for seemingly no reason they took interest in a conversation I was having with the girl infront of me and I don’t know if she genuinely lost interest in the conversation or if she’s the worlds greatest wingwoman because as soon as the conversation was just us three she started checking her Snapchat which led to me full on having a one on one conversation with my crush and by some miracle I didn’t fuck it up, what I had expected to be a short awkward chat ended up being much more, we made each other laugh and both of us were actually having fun talking to each other. We talked until the end of class and they held the door as we were walking out. I thought they would wait for their other friends so they could walk with them but it turned out they were actually holding the door for me and we kept talking even when their friends caught up to us they still continued talking to me and the best part is they introduced me to their friends and asked my pronouns which I was really cool considering most people misgender me. I really enjoyed talking with them and I think we’re friends now! This is fucking amazing and I’m almost certain most of this post is barely coherent but I’m just really happy and I don’t know how to process this. |
So I thought I had a crush on this guy in the other class. But he acted pretty passive-aggressive against me the last time and that was a big turn-off. This is now like 2-3 weeks ago. |
For 2 months I am texting this guy again, that I dumped at the beginning of the year cause he was getting too close to me when I wasn’t ready, after the situation we didn’t meet and didn’t text until now. We understand each other again and he always talks about another girl. I’m trying to help him but it doesn’t look good for him. |
5 days ago we meet in person again, after 9 months or something, and idk why but since then I can’t stop thinking about him. When he was at my place he holds my hand just for a little moment and he tried to cuddle I think but I kindly made it obvious to him, that I don’t want that. Although, I didn’t feel that uncomfortable this time. And I’m thinking maybe I should of let him. The thing is: It seems as if I only have to make the first step or rather only have to be a little more responsive to the situation and he could become my boyfriend. But on the other hand, yesterday he started to talk about other girls again like what? I kinda feel like being manipulated but also I don’t think he would manipulate me on purpose. I just don’t know what to do and again I just can’t stop thinking about him in a good way. |
Well, there is this girl i like and i am very socially awkward. We are on the flirty friend stage where we both flirt and say miss u and shit. I really don't know what to do. we only met in June of this year and instantly clicked. We both share lots in common, both have social anxiety and are really good friends. We have talked about lots, kinks, and shit. But then she talked about her crush. We are in the same friendship group and if i ask her and she says no we could rick our friendship and other stuff. We have become best friends and i am quite introverted so i have decided to resort to reddit. Should i tell my crush i like her? |
So there’s this really hot guy at my school. It’s like now that I realize I like him, it like I run into him constantly. Like was he always around me this much and I just didn’t notice it??? I feel like he thinks I am imbecile because I make a COMPLETE fool out of myself when he’s around. He brings me sweet awkward. I like melt when this guy’s around and it’s quite exhilarating! I need to get rid of this crush bc I’m only going to end up hurting my own feelings… |
So there is this girl, lets call her Bob. I knew her last year, but I really didn’t have many classes with her. I am in Newspaper Class with her this year which is also lunch period. We have kind of “bonded” over being in this class together. I like Bob, and I want to tell her that, but I feel like it would just make out friendship weird if I told her that, and in a class so close like Newspaper, I am scared it would just be awkward. At a football game my friend mentioned something random about me with Bob kind of involved in this conversation. She laughed and then hugged me and said it was okay and she still loved me. I know it was probably just like how best friends say they love each-other, not really romantically but more of like best friendy. I hope someone can tell me if I should tell her how I feel and if so, how. I can provide any additional information below if needed. Thanks. |
Edit: 12-20-21 We started dating!! I noticed some signs and realized she probably liked me. She’s hot as well |
So I am [17F] and he’s [17M]. I’ve had a crush on this guy for a while but honestly I have no idea what to do. I am quite awkward with men or just talking in general, so I don’t really know how to start a proper conversation. He’s friends with my close friend at school that I hang out with, and I’ve hung out with him 3 times now during our free periods at school [we were trying to study]. He’s fits all of my boxes?? He’s funny, nice, respectful, loves cats, is super intelligent, tall , clean,loves anime and reads manga ?? He also goes to the gym and he’s a bit of a dork. But he’s rlly popular with girls. The issue is he says he doesn’t date because of his religion, but we only know that because we did some digging. |
Last year he wasn’t noticed but since he started going to the gym and got a glow up he’s more popular. My friend told me that he also doesn’t know how to speak to girls, but honestly I think he is doing pretty well, he doesn’t even need to try.So my close friend became friends with him only recently when he popped up to her to answer a question about an anime. She’s super pretty and sociable and it seems like he enjoys talking to her and they text kind of occasionally. She told me she kinda liked him but stopped, and now she’s kind of back to liking him again but not in a crush type way, she’s interested. |
So when we hung out we kind of talked just about school and stuff and last week on Friday before the weekend we were talking and I found out he shares the same favourite anime as mine, so I had fun having a mutual conversation with him about it. We get along good but I think he gets on better with my friend. Personally I don’t think I’m pretty, so it’s just a bummer. |
I found an excuse to text him as he was looking for something in tiktok so I sent it to him Friday evening and he replied in the morning. I also opened a conversation about another anime that was on his Instagram highlights but now he hasn’t replied for more than a whole day. Issue is I think he is the type to always be on his phone so I’m sure he’s airing me. |
My friend knows I like him so we aren’t in a competition but I feel like she low-key feels like she has the upper hand.she is telling me to stay patient and see what happens but I dont know because he’s surrounded by a lot of girls and he seems to definitely like my friend more. |
This might sounds weird but for some reason I’ve been getting like ‘signs’ from the universe. I believe in tarot and card reading and I did a reading and they both indicated that there is going to be some love in my life and that a man is going to come in that is the same age as me, although it’s not definite since I don’t have much experience with them.I’ve also been getting those weird “he likes you back” tiktoks and also gave specific detail multiple times about his appearance and zodiac sign which I never got before , so I found it weird. (If anyone wants more detail about it exactly I’ll give some) |
I was considering confessing to him if our friendship develops. |
Long story short, I need help pls. |
And it only makes me like her even more 😭 |